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The overall reason people stay in relationships that just aren'tworking is because of fear of being alone. Many people are basicallyconsidered "walking dead" when it comes to being in a relationship thathas no merit of making it. Gabby Love offers many key warning signsthat a relationship is on the brink of failure and it's time to moveon.
A. Fighting for no reason at all. When you start fighting overpetty points that seem to blow out of proportion, i.e. leaving thetoilet seat up is a favorite. The man being used to living his wholelife on his own all of a sudden is considered inconsiderate anduncaring by the woman if the toilet seat is left up.
B. Showing little or no affection. It's funny how this is such agray area that can break up a relationship because it's usuallydetermined by the disgruntled party. What is really too much or toolittle?
C. The dreaded friends of the disgruntled party take center stage.Remember how excited you were when you first met and that specialperson was considered your true "soul mate" ? Now the meeting ofdisgruntled friends opinion appears center stage for discussion in yourrelationship.
D. If there was sexual involvement in the relationship it basicallyhas been stopped or so mundane that you can't wait until you arethrough. To me this is the real sign it's over. Sex should beconsidered 90% mental and 10% physical.
E. Conversation in a relationship has become null and void. Rememberthe long hours on the phone and in person talking about everything? Nowyou can barely say one word to each other.
F. Finding your focus shifted to others instead of the one you arewith. Remember sitting at a table and gazing into each others eyes whenyou first started dating? Now you look elsewhere instead of with theone you are with.
G. Finding excuses to not be together alone is becoming moreevident. One of the favorite cop outs is work. Always working latebecomes a popular tool because the other party can say they are tootired to get together.
H. Vacations are spent apart. Let's not forget the movie "HowStella Got Her Groove Back." Vacations apart are meant as a reason toexplore new potential recruits. If your mate says they are going to aparticular romantic getaway spot by themselves or withfriends....boy... the signs are on the wall! It's over!
The above are just a few key points to look out for in arelationship that is going bad. Always remember a healthy relationshipshould be uplifting and positive. |
| posted by: uncleche 2007-09-01 16:44 Tag : divorce, relationships, dating, love view:11 |
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