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You might wonder... Are there any benefits of enjoying threesome once in a while?
Oh YES there are!
Let’s take a look at the three major benefits of experiencing a more open sex life:
1. You can’t cheat and the need to cheat diminishes
2. Your chances of remaining in a quality relationship drastically improve
3. You make more effort to stay physically in shape
1. You can’t cheat and the need to cheat diminishes
Most monogamous couples choose to be 'monogamist' not because they wantto, but because they don’t know any better. Many of them get marriedwith the best of their intentions to remain faithful, however, after afew years of being together the “opportunity” arises and suddenly theycheat on their wife or husband. Why do you think people cheat? Becausethey’re looking for something that they can’t find anymore in theirsteady partners: VARIETY.
The thought to have sex with only one person for the rest of our livesscares the hell out of most of people; especially guys! Whether we liketo admit it or not; the truth is that traditional couples 'cheat' allthe time. If we’re good enough at hiding our 'affairs', the secret goeswith us to the grave. Some “cheaters” however are caught in the act.Unfortunately cheating on your partner; caught or not, destroys thatprecious bond that you have together.
The moment you cheat, you have subconsciously damaged the relationship.Interesting enough amongst sexually liberated couples 'cheating' isnearly non-existing. Why? Because they “play” together so they can havethe best of both worlds: familiarity and variety. Playing brings themtogether, not apart as in 'cheating.'
2. Your chances of remaining in a quality relationship drastically improve
Because you both get to play with other people your relationshipgives you the best of both worlds: variety and familiarity. This givesyou a huge advantage to keeping a long-lasting quality relationshipover most monogamous couples.
3. You make more effort to stay physically in shape
Because you’re hunting for threesome candidate (s) you remain inthe “Dating Scene.” Most traditional couples end the honey moon phasein their relationship pretty early and reality settles in. They’reliving together, working hard, start a family, trying to keep up withtheir social and family life. This seriously affects their sex life;familiarity sinks in and before they know it they put on weight andstop taking care of their physical appearance… having a sexually open,responsible non-monogamist relationship with your partner keeps youyoung.
Flirting raises your self-esteem and gives you an incentive to remainfit and attractive. “Playing Couples” , as they are known in theswinging scene, have a tendency to take care of their physicalappearance. They want to be attractive not only for themselves but alsofor others. |
| posted by: uncleche 2007-09-01 16:49 Tag : cheating trisome, monogamy, polygamy, mariage, view:12 |
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